Accra, Ghana — Socialite and actress Efia Odo has ignited major online buzz after making some bold revelations about her relationship deal-breakers. In a recent episode of her podcast Rants, Bants, and Confessions, she didn’t hold back — declaring that any man who can’t last at least an hour in bed is a “red flag.”
According to Efia, anything below 40 minutes just won’t cut it:
“A guy who only lasts 40 minutes in bed, red flag. I need it to last a good hour or more. The first 10 minutes is for flirting.”
But her list of non-negotiables doesn’t stop there. She also called out men in their 30s who still live with their parents, saying that lack of independence is a deal-breaker for her:
“Any guy who is 30 and above and you still live with your parents … for me that’s a red flag.”
Efia explained this stance as rooted in her lifestyle — she loves walking around in lingerie (or even naked) at home, and she feels that kind of freedom might not be possible if her partner still lives with family.
Unsurprisingly, her comments have sparked fierce debate across social media:
Some people applaud her for being honest and setting high standards. Others argue that her expectations are unrealistic or put too much pressure on intimacy. Relationship experts have weighed in — a counsellor told YEN.com.gh that while red flags are important, they should be balanced with compassion and understanding.
Whether you agree or not, Efia’s message is loud and clear: for her, stamina matters — and she’s not afraid to call out what she considers weak efforts.
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